You want to understand why your person behaves the way they do—even though it’s harmful to themselves and others, reduce conflict, feel like you’re a player in your own story, and RECLAIM YOUR LIFE.
There’s just one small problem…
So, what is the thing keeping YOU stuck?
Your life is so busy and so full of anticipation—when is the next outburst or incident coming?!—and you’re flat out exhausted just trying to get through the day.
Or maybe you find yourself numbing out and avoiding not only the bad stuff, but also the good stuff… you’ve gotten this far, you can hold on a little longer, right?
Before you know it, another day, week, or month has gone by and nothing has improved in your relationship with your BPD loved one. Everything seems to be falling apart.
This might be when you start feeling defeated and ashamed—like you’ve let yourself and your family down, like you don’t care enough, and maybe… maybe it really is hopeless.
It’s not that you don’t care enough, or that changing the dynamic of your relationship with your loved one is impossible.
It’s just the FEAR of taking a leap and trying just ONE more thing and trusting that it really will work this time.
In fact… what if you could kick that fear to the curb and move forward with the confidence that you can have a HEALTHY and ENJOYABLE relationship with your BPD person?
It’s not just about having more information. It isn’t even about having the right tools!
Because if you’re being really honest, how many books have you read and how many so-called professionals have you already worked with that didn’t change your situation?
So if it’s not about information, tools, or another specialist, how DO you change things once and for all?
You’ve read a hundred books, Googled your person’s symptoms and behaviors thousands of times, gone through countless diagnostic tests, met with counselors, been seen by psychiatrists and therapists, and the list goes on.
But you’re still STUCK.
If you could have ALL THE INFO you need IN ONE PLACE, learn how to CUSTOMIZE the information and tools to YOUR UNIQUE SITUATION—with practice assignments, professional guidance, and feedback and support from a community of other peers going through the same stuff… then you begin to see REAL RESULTS!
Before you read one more thing or try one more tactic that doesn’t work… you need to gain the KNOWLEDGE of what’s really going on with your BPD or highly emotionally sensitive person, learn and practice evidence-based SKILLS that work, and connect with a COMMUNITY of people who are sharing a similar challenge.
And that’s exactly what we’re going to do together in Real Tools for Right Now.
A comprehensive online course to help you understand the BPD diagnosis and behaviors more clearly, learn evidence-based skills, and reclaim your sense of safety and confidence while building and improving connection with your BPD or highly emotionally sensitive person.
Real Tools for Right Now isn’t your average online course. With me as your guide, you’ll learn the powerful tools and strategies that I’ve curated over 30 years of professional and life experience to help you navigate the tumultuous rapids of your relationship and your life.
It all starts with a tiny shift. You don’t have to be perfect, just skillful more often than not. I’m going to show you how to create connection with your BPD loved one so you can see real and consistent change in your relationship with them and even your partner, your other family members, and your friends—all WITHOUT sacrificing your own sanity.
What do we know about BPD and high emotional sensitivity? You’ll learn the science behind these disorders and why your person’s brain is different from others’. You’ll begin to understand the patterns that emerge and how to anticipate common behaviors so you can ready your skills to cope when the time comes (because it will).
Lesson 1. Mindfulness
Lesson 2. Biologically, What Do We Know?
Lesson 3. Bio-social Theory of BPD
Lesson 4. Dysregulation
Lesson 5. Behavior Patterns and Dialectical Dilemmas
I truly believe that BPD is not a life sentence for misery, and that you can accomplish a HAPPY and HEALTHY relationship with the right combination of what I like to call Knowledge + Skills + Community.
Yet so many parents are too tired and beaten down that they never think to ask for help… from the right people, who understand exactly what they’re going through and know what actually works, and who offer non-judgmental support and community for you to lean on.
And that’s why so many families are trudging through, just trying to stay afloat, thinking they are just “unlucky” and this is the hand they were dealt.
Your feelings of stress, overwhelm, anger, fear, and helplessness are valid. AND, they are symptoms of trying to do this all alone.
Hi! I’m your teacher and coach, Lisa Bond. I help individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD) or who are highly sensitive, and parents or loved ones of these individuals, with evidence-based tools—like dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)—to improve their relationships and their lives.
If you’re wondering how I got qualified to help you and your family deal with these incredibly difficult topics and experiences, well…
It all started because my own daughter struggled with BPD from a young age. I tried literally everything and nothing worked. I made allllllll the mistakes.
My training and experience as a registered nurse, and the access that gave me to certified physicians, didn’t offer me any nuggets of wisdom.
I was exhausted, angry, ashamed, fearful, sad, and helpless.
UNTIL… I found DBT. When I started learning and practicing dialectical behavior therapy, everything changed. Our entire family dynamic shifted. My daughter is now in her late 30s and lives a happy and independent life.
After years of f*cking up in every way you can think of, I’ve not only found the tools and support systems to regain freedom and balance in my life, I’ve helped hundreds of my clients do it, too.
Are you ready to reclaim your life?
You don’t need a degree in psychology to learn these tools and be able to communicate with your kids, your partner or your friend with BPD. Most people with support can do it!
ENJOY THE ONE-TIME PRICE BELOW! IT WILL NEVER BE THIS LOW AGAIN… SNAG IT WHILE YOU CAN!
Registration is now closed for Real Tools for Right Now. It will reopen again around Spring of 2022. Drop your info below to be notified when it’s back!